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"This Affair is Over
Essential reading for any woman involved with a married man"
This Affair is Over, Take Back Your Life and End Your Affair with a Married Man. No judgments. No blame. Just the facts that will help to keep you from going back. Dr. Nanette Miner: Page 6
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functions or couple's get-togethers. Walter was known as a
flirt, and loved to "make passes" at the women in the
office. One evening when Christiana was working late,
Walter returned to the office with a bottle of scotch. They
drank the entire bottle, and then went out for drinks when
it was gone. They next day he called and told her how much
he enjoyed spending the evening with her, and that he
couldn't wait to see her again. Christiana saw no problem
with this casual association, although she was tremendously
attracted to him. After two months of seeing each other on
a weekly basis, and daily calls, he professed his love to
her and offered to call off his wedding to Joyce, if
Christiana said that was what she wanted. She told him no
because she didn't really believe that he meant it, and she
was happily married at the time. Shortly after, Joyce asked
Christiana to be a bridesmaid in her wedding. Christiana
agreed, and began to re-think what she
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was doing with Walter. She told Walter she was
uncomfortable and they would have to stop seeing each other.
The wedding took place, all was quiet for awhile, and the
two couples continued to see each other on a social basis.
One month after the wedding, Christiana and Tim were
attending a party at Walter and Joyce's house. As
Christiana was leaving an upstairs bathroom, Walter met her
outside the door, pushed her inside, closed the door behind
them and forcefully kissed her. Although Christiana was
stunned, she admits she did not resist. Three months after
that encounter, they slept together for the first time. It
had been 11 months since they first started seeing each
other. Christiana felt that although it was almost a year
before the two slept together, she and Walter were still
having an "affair." Altogether, Christiana called off their
affair eight times, each time vowing to never see him
again. Each time Walter wooed her back with promises he'd
leave his wife.
By the time Christiana told him the final good-bye, she
and Walter had been seeing each other for four years,
during which time he promised her at least six times that
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