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"This Affair is Over
Essential reading for any woman involved with a married man"
This Affair is Over, Take Back Your Life and End Your Affair with a Married Man. No judgments. No blame. Just the facts that will help to keep you from going back. Dr. Nanette Miner: Page 29
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You are able to say to yourself, "I've lived through this
horror, I can take the next thing that comes along."
You must do the thing you think you cannot do.
Eleanor Roosevelt
Are you:
Fed-up with being alone on the holidays?
Tired of having a broken heart?
Tired of broken promises? Canceled dates?
Fed up with the lies and deceit?
Tired of being a convenience?
Drained by blow-after-blow to your self-esteem?
Discontented with being his second choice?
Tired of the emptiness inside you?
Ready to make a change?
This Affair is Over!
Then it's time for you to take action. To go on with your
life without your lover is going to be one of the hardest
things you've ever had to do. But, if you desire a happier,
fuller. life this is what you must do. If you've decided to
end your affair, set a date to do it and prepare for it.
Start now by making a commitment to yourself.
On the next page you will find a list of 10 steps that are
essential to transforming your life. The page is purposely
set apart from the others so that you can rip it out and
carry it with you. You will find a full explanation of each
step after that.
Ten Steps To Regaining Your Life
1.
Accept the fact that he is not leaving.
2.
Stop your association with him.
3.
Stop obsessing about him.
4.
Seek outside help.
5.
Start a "new life."
6.
Keep a journal.
7.
Make a list of goals.
8.
Re-establish your friendships.
9.
Become spiritual.
10.
Fake it 'till you make it.
This Affair is Over!
1. Accept the fact that he is not leaving.
Acceptance is the most important step toward starting your
new life. If he hasn't done it yet, you can be 99% certain
that he will not leave his wife.
2. Stop your association with him.
If you continue to see him you will not be able to think
clearly and heal yourself. Distance will give you a better
perspective. Stop sleeping with him this is imperative in
order to break those emotional and physical ties. Stop
accepting his phone calls. Don't return his messages.
Change your number to an unlisted number. Stop calling him.
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