|
"This Affair is Over
Essential reading for any woman involved with a married man"
This Affair is Over, Take Back Your Life and End Your Affair with a Married Man. No judgments. No blame. Just the facts that will help to keep you from going back. Dr. Nanette Miner: Page 21
of 33
attempt to bring them back together. At the end of the
evening, Brain drove Amy home and asked to come into her
apartment to play her a song that he
This Affair is Over!
had recorded especially for her. As the song was playing,
he told her how much he missed her, that he had not slept
with his wife in over two months, and that he was taking
steps to end his marriage in order to be with her. He told
her he wanted desperately to make love to her. Amy told him
no, it was over. When Amy opened the door for Brian to
leave, she found his wife standing on her doorstep. A
confrontation ensued. Amy assured his wife that the affair
was over between them and that Brian was there, that
evening, in an attempt to seduce her since he had not slept
with his wife in two months. Brian's wife revealed that
they had had sex that morning!
The married man involved in an affair is enmeshed in a
life of duplicity, deceit and lies. Can you live with a
person of this nature? Before you answer, ask yourself
these questions: Do you trust your lover? Do you believe
your lover is having another affair, or would have another
affair if the right circumstances arose? Has your lover had
other affairs? If you were to marry your lover, are you
comfortable in the belief that he would be committed solely
to you?
When asked to honestly answer these questions, most survey
respondents stated that they felt "duped" by their lovers,
and that they believed their lovers have had, or would
have, other affairs, if the opportunity arose. One
respondent summed up the end of her relationship with her
lover this way "I eventually realized that I have no
respect for a cheater."
During the Affair
Let's take a deeper look into the words that women use to
describe their emotions while they are involved in an
affair.
Desperation -Christiana stated she felt desperation in her
relationship with Walter because she wanted so badly to
begin a life with him and have his children. Until she had
met Walter, Christiana hadn't really thought about having
children. The time just didn't seem right to her. But,
after a year with Walter, she felt that they were soul
|