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"This Affair is Over
Essential reading for any woman involved with a married man"
This Affair is Over, Take Back Your Life and End Your Affair with a Married Man. No judgments. No blame. Just the facts that will help to keep you from going back. Dr. Nanette Miner: Page 15
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are involved in our decision making. Many times we know the
reality of our situation, but we choose not to acknowledge
it. Although many women expressed that they felt "duped"
or "used" by their lover, the responsibility does not lie
entirely with the man. Many times the man is telling you
exactly how he feels, and exactly what role you play in his
life. However, you have heard something different. You must
have the courage to stand back and assess the situation for
what it really is.
This Affair is Over!
Take a few moments now to ask yourself: Do I believe my
lover will leave his wife? Do I believe he will leave her
for me?
When asked if they truly believed their lover would leave
his wife, 41% of our survey respondents said "No" while 1%
said "Yes, but not for me."
All Right,
Sometimes These Things Do Work Out
Chapter 3
All Right,
Sometimes These Things Do Work Out
There's a difference between interest and commitment. When
you're interested in doing something, you do it only when
it's convenient. When you're committed to something, you
accept no excuses; only results.
Ken Blanchard
ou'll notice that this chapter is short in comparison to
the others. There is good reason for this. Most affairs do
not end blissfully, with the man and girlfriend together.
Of our survey respondents, less than one percent of the men
left their wives for their girlfriends -although nearly 53%
said that they would leave. In some instances, the man did
leave his wife, and yet still did not commit to his
girlfriend. As stated in the preface, this book is not
intended to discourage you, but rather encourage you. If
you are wondering if your affair will ever turn into
something more, keep reading. Gauge your lover's actions
against those men that have taken steps toward a life with
their lover.
This Affair is Over!
Her story:
Caitlin and Michael met at work. Initially Caitlin wasn't
at all interested in Michael. After they were first
introduced, he called her a few times to ask her out for
drinks. She refused him each time. As she got to know him
better however, she began to feel that Michael was
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