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"This Affair is Over
Essential reading for any woman involved with a married man"
This Affair is Over, Take Back Your Life and End Your Affair with a Married Man. No judgments. No blame. Just the facts that will help to keep you from going back. Dr. Nanette Miner: Page 1
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This Affair is Over!
Essential reading for any woman involved with a married man
Nanette Miner, Ed.D. and Sandi Terri BVC Publishing,
Bristol CT USA
This Affair is Over!
Essential reading for any woman involved with a married man
By: Nanette Miner, Ed.D. and Sandi Terri Cover Design: Red
Barn Studios
Published by: BVC Publishing, LLC
P.O. Box 1819 Bristol, CT 06011-1819 USA
All rights reserved. No part of this book may be
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written permission from the authors, except for the
inclusion of brief quotations in a review.
Copyright
1996 by BVC Publishing, LLC Second printing 2005 ISBN 0-
9650666-1-4
Dedication
To all women who are seeking a better life for themselves.
Table of Contents
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS i
PREFACE ii
CHAPTER 1:
About Affairs.... 1
CHAPTER 2:
If You Try Hard Enough, 15
You Can Rationalize Anything
CHAPTER 3:
All Right, Sometimes These 23
Things Do Work Out
CHAPTER 4:
Reality 31
CHAPTER 5:
Getting Your Life Back In Order 47
SUGGESTED READING AND REFERENCES 55
Acknowledgments
First and foremost, we'd like to thank all of the women
who participated in our survey, and especially those who
granted us personal interviews. In addition, we'd like to
thank Theodore Avery, Janet, Hilary Estey, Jill, Amby
Burridge, and Joe Waggoner for their assistance in putting
together various aspects of the book.
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Preface
Our goal, in writing this book, is to help women who are
in pain; to end their affairs with married men and to find
the strength to go forward with their life. This strength
is found, as it so often is, in the company of other women.
There are thousands of women across the U.S. who are
involved in dead-end affairs. We wanted to find out -who
are these women turning to? Are they experiencing the same
feelings? Is there a commonality in the way these women
deal with their affairs? What can we learn from them?
We've written this book for all the women who are stalled
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