This Affair is Over! Essential Reading for Any Woman Involved with a Married Man

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Hello, my name is Dr. Nanette Miner. In 1996 I co-authored This Affair is Over after being motivated by the pain and sadness of a close friend who chose to end her affair with a married man. Although this friend and I spoke to or saw each other every day, I had no idea she had been having an affair for over three years.

Thankfully, she confided in me and I was able to help her through the breakup. Other women are not as lucky.

Very few women will tell their friends or family that they are involved with a married man due to the repercussions that usually result ...

Questions such as:

What were you thinking?

Have you no respect for yourself?

Where are your morals?

Names like:

Mistress

The Other Woman

Home Wrecker

Tramp

And feelings of:

Guilt

Depression

Betrayal

Loneliness

As a result, they return to the “comfort” of their married partner because they have no support system in place to help them put down the phone, stop driving by his home, or stop feeling alone.

This Affair is Over! is the Support System You’ve Been Looking For

No judgments. No blame. Just the facts that will help to keep you from going back.

Facts like:

Most men are not looking for something “better,” they are merely looking for something “different”

When asked if they truly believed their lover would leave his wife, 41% or our survey respondents said “No,” while the remainder said “Yes, but not for me”

Less than 1% of men leave their wives for their girlfriends – although nearly 53% said they would

Because most women involved in this type of relationship have no support system, they have no way of knowing that the “lines” their lover feeds them are the same lines that literally tens of thousands of women across the US have heard themselves.

Do these sound familiar?

I’ll lose my job

I’m afraid she’ll commit suicide

My in-laws paid for…

My religion won’t allow me to get divorced

When the children turn 18

(There are hundreds more)

While there are always exceptions to the rule...

The Vast Majority of Extramarital Affairs Cause Pain,
Anguish, Despair and Loss of Self-Esteem

You are here today because you are experiencing one or more of these “symptoms” yourself and you are looking for a way to stop the pain. We can help.

Are You Ready to Take-Charge of Your Relationship?

Are You Ready to Move-On with Your Life?

This Affair is Over! will help you to realize that, unfortunately, your affair is not special. It is just like every other one.

What is the most jarring realization for women – and the most difficult fact to accept – is that 99% of the married men having affairs are not having an affair because of you. He is having the affair for himself. If he weren’t with you, he’d be with someone else.

Begin to Take Your Life Back NOW

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